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Top 5 Ways to Best Move On from a Heartbreak and Heal Your Heart

At some point in your lives, we experience heartbreak and it’s something that is difficult to accept. Sadly, a lot of people could not accept the heartbreak and do things that are very regrettable.

We understand that your heart is breaking and you might think nothing could take away the pain. But as cliché as it might sound, it’s not the end of the world! Here are the top 5 ways to best move on from heartbreak and heal your heart.

Cry it Out

Yes, his/her betrayal is the most difficult thing to accept and you want to cry. Don’t hold back the tears! Crying it out could help you release all the pain you are feeling inside.

It would be a good idea if you can talk to someone and share what you feel but if that is not possible, crying is actually a good way of releasing the pain and letting out your frustrations. You will discover that after crying, your heart will feel much lighter.

Reflect and Keep a Sense of Perspective

It is important to accept the situation and come to terms with what happened, no matter how difficult that might be. It would be easier to accept things and have closure if you come to terms with the reasons why you broke up with your partner.

Of course, that’s easier said than done especially if your partner had cheated but the faster you accept the situation and get rid of your feelings for him/her, the easier you can move on.

But don’t keep on dwelling over the past and forcing your partner to come back and love you again. It doesn’t always work that way. While it would be difficult without your partner by your side, start living your life again.

Life goes on, whether he/she is gone.

Keep Yourself Busy

Don’t keep on thinking about what happened and what you could have done to prevent the situation from happening. While reflecting on the situation helps, especially in the first few days or weeks, dwelling on the past is also unhealthy. You just could not change the past, no matter how hard you wish you could.

To keep your mind out of your heartbreak, keep yourself busy. Hang out with friends, take up a new hobby, go to those places on your bucket list, volunteer to do something good in the community, or just about anything constructive that would keep your hands and mind busy.

Improve Yourself

We hear a lot of stories about people actually losing weight and looking much better after their partners cheated because they wanted to improve themselves. That’s actually good, not because you are trying to entice your ex but because the better you look, the better you will feel.

Plus, looking awesome after the breakup is actually the best revenge! As you boost your self-esteem and enjoy your new look, this might actually pave the way for you to finally meet that special someone who would make you fall in love again. Of course, that’s not your goal right now but self-improvement is a great way to help you move on.

Take it Easy and Let Time Heal You

Still crying weeks after he/she left? We understand your pain. Don’t force yourself to heal from the heartbreak right there and then. Healing should not be forced. Ride the tide and take it easy. Let time heal you.

Just remember that despite all that pain you are feeling right now, things are going to get better – probably not today or tomorrow but it will…

Source: Lessons Learned in Life

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Taxi Driver Praised after Rescuing Stray Cat in the Middle of Highway

So many animals are getting hit by vehicles along the world’s busy highways, but one cat was saved by a taxi driver who stopped his vehicle to save it from the middle of the highway! Isn’t that wonderful?

Taxi Driver Saves Stray Cat from Highway

It is really so sad that there are millions of animals that get hit by vehicles along the world’s busy highways because these creatures have no idea that these fast-moving machines are heading to their direction.

But it is nice to hear stories of people who stop to help these creatures to safety.

Photo credit: Kenn Migan Vincent Gumonan / Facebook

Kenn Migan Vincent Gumonan was driving along a national highway in Lapasan, Cagayan de Oro City in southern Philippines last January 13, 2021 at around 9:47 AM when he saw the taxi ahead of him stop all of a sudden. He was curious why the driver stopped.

Moments later, the driver of the said taxi went out of the vehicle to check underneath. Whatever it is under the car was not yet visible to Gumonan at the time, but the taxi driver drove the vehicle a bit forward and revealed a cat!

Photo credit: Kenn Migan Vincent Gumonan / Facebook

Gumonan watched happily as the taxi driver tried his best to catch the cat without spooking it. After all, if the cat gets spooked, it might suddenly run across the street and get hit by the other passing vehicles that might not notice the small figure moving in that highway.

Photo credit: Kenn Migan Vincent Gumonan / Facebook

It was a good thing that the taxi driver managed to catch the stray cat. He left his vehicle as he crossed the street, bringing the cat to safety. Unknown to him, Gumonan was cheering at his actions and would later share the video on Facebook where his heroic deeds went viral.

Photo credit: Kenn Migan Vincent Gumonan / Facebook

Kudos to this kindhearted taxi driver!

Wildlife-Vehicle Collisions (WVCs)

Increasing automobile speed has contributed a lot to the rapid rise in wildlife-vehicle collisions (WVCs). This is also due to many roads being created along places that have once been home to many animals. Moreover, a lot of drivers in recent years don’t pay too much attention to the road as they are distracted by their mobile phones or just want to move at higher speeds to reach their destinations more quickly.

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3-Year-Old Kid Wows with Savings of Php77k, Parents Claim They Don’t Spend His Gifts

It is a common joke that parents often ‘keep’ their children’s monetary gifts, but actually spend it for food or something else! But a nearly 3-year-old kid wows with savings of Php77k because his parents claimed that they don’t spend his gifts at all. Wow.

Kid Saves Php77k from Gifts

A lot of ninongs, ninangs, and even family members prefer to give monetary gifts instead of buying something because they have a hard time picking the right gift that the receiver might like. After all, kids (and even adults!) can be so picky when it comes to things they want.

But it is also a common joke (and reality) that parents tell the kids they will ‘keep’ the money but actually spend it for the household needs, such as food or paying for bills.

While that’s a worthwhile way of spending the money, there are also parents who disagree with this arrangement. After all, the giver had given the money for the child/receiver to buy something that he/she wanted.

Photo credit: Jarlo Manalad / Facebook

Jarlo Manalad recently shared how their nearly 3-year-old son has Php77k in savings because they don’t spend any of the monetary gifts that he received. The money came from so many people who love the kid – ninongs, ninangs, relatives, and family friends.

Even if someone gave them something for the child’s birthday or special event, the couple decided to keep the money as the child’s savings. Manalad promised that any money given by anyone in the future will also go to this savings fund.

Aside from this money, the couple also saves Php200 per pay day for the child’s future educational funds. They hope that they could fund the child’s college education with their salaries but might use the money they saved for it.

The post has gone viral, with many people expressing admiration to these parents for the kind of attitude they have for their son’s money.

Building an Educational Fund

It is a big reality that college education can be so expensive. That’s why it is best to start saving for it when your kids are still small.

First, set your tuition fund goals. Create a savings strategy such as setting aside the money for savings before budgeting the rest of your salary. Some would suggest investing the money to grow it but others believe it is best to put it in the bank. Make sure to track your progress to inspire you to continue saving.

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Teacher Goes Viral after Replying to Student Before Going to Her Wedding

We all know that most teachers are dedicated to their jobs and are often spending a lot of overtime work to finish lessons, grades, and various reports. But one teacher recently went viral after replying to a student before going to her wedding! Now, that’s truly dedication…

Teacher Replies to Student Before Her Wedding

It is said that teaching is a noble job because their work does not stop when they go out of the classroom.

More often than not, they still spend lots of hours after school is done because there are still a lot of lessons to prepares, papers and projects to check, assignments and seatworks to be corrected, grades to be made, reports to be submitted, and so much more. Even during weekends, teachers still have a lot of things to do.

Photo credit: Irish Jeanne Bautista / Facebook

Recently, a teacher showed that their work really isn’t done even outside their duties inside the school. Irish Jeanne Bautista wowed netizens after she replied to a student’s message even if she was busy preparing for her wedding.

The student was asking about something related to a submission of a paper; though it was not indicated whether the paper was an assignment, test paper, or project. Apparently, the teacher was able to check this student’s paper but the others were reportedly not there. However, the student was puzzled because the paper was submitted along with the others.

Photo credit: Irish Jeanne Bautista / Facebook

Though she was already busy at the time with wedding preparations, the teacher took time to reply to the student. She was not able to resolve the girl’s query, but the teacher made sure that the student did not feel that she was being ignored.

Wait lang, Larah… Ikakasal lang si Ma’am. Replyan kita later,” the teacher replied, with matching emojis.

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