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‘Kargador’ Earns Praise after Daughter Graduates from College

A ‘kargador’ might not have a lot of money, but one was able to send his daughter to college – and she would honor him on her graduation, sharing that she is proud to be the daughter of a ‘kargador’!

Mailyn Esquelito Akoy shared that other kids are happy to share that they are the children of engineers, doctors, seafarers, teachers, etc. but she is also proud to be the daughter of a lowly kargador. While her father toiled with every sack he carries on his back, every bit of that hardwork means some money for the family.

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

They might be poor but Mailyn saw just how her father did his best to work as hard as he could to provide for the family. They might live in a squatter’s area that easily gets flooded during rainy season, leaving them sleepless in those days, yet she used those hardships as her motivation to do better in school.

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

She wants to give her parents a better life – and the best way she knew she could do that was to finish her college education so she could find a good job.

She lost her elder brother to unknown condition back when they were both in third year high school. The illness was never known because they didn’t have any money to bring him to the hospital nor the PhilHealth for poor folks, she shared.

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

From then on, she vowed to do her best so her family would have a better future. But going to school was a financial challenge that she and the family had to deal with.

Mailyn was not able to immediately enroll in college after high school graduation because of poverty, but she managed to join the TESDA vocational courses offered at the Nuestra Seniora de Candelaria Parish Church in Sultan Kudarat where she earned a diploma on Computer Literacy.

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

The next year, her mother had to take a ‘5-6 loan’ to pay for the downpayment after she passed the entrance exam at Sultan Kudarat State University. Her father had to work hard to pay that debt but Mailyn also made sure to do her best to find scholarships to ensure her parents wouldn’t have to worry too much about her education.

Sadly, there were people who laughed at their family for being ‘ambitious’, mocking Mailyn and telling her she would only go to school for that first semester because they were poor!

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

“Marami ang nakapagsabi na hindi ako makaka¬-abot hangang 4th year college dahil hindi na raw kakayanin ng aking mga magulang ang magiging gastusin sa paaralan. Hanggang 1st semester lang daw ako dahil si Papa isa lamang na kargador na kung tutuosin kulang pa ang kayang kinikita sa pang araw-araw naming gastosin dahil lang sa kakaramput nitong kita.

Ang ginawa ko noon? In-applyan ko halos lahat ng mga opisinang tumatanggap ng skolar. Yong init, pagod at hirap hindi ko alintana makapagpatuloy lamang sa pag-aaral. Hindi ako nagpatalo sa aking hiya kahit alam kong walang kasiguradohan kung matatangap ba ako o hindi ngunit sumubok parin ako.

Though she found scholarships to pay for her tuition fees, she had to struggle with other needs. She only had one skirt uniform from first year to fourth year!

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

Because the house doesn’t have electricity, she makes sure to do her assignments and projects in school. Her dad would pick her up on his bicycle, but some people mocked her for that.

Madalas akong ginagabi lagi ng uwi dahil sa paaralan na ako gumagawa ng aking mga projects, assignments at don narin ako nakikicharge. Sinusundo lamang ako ni Papa pag ako’y tapos na. Minsan, may natanong sa akin. Isa sa aking kaklase: “Di ka ba nahihiyang bisikleta lang ang taga-hatid at sundo mo rito sa paaralan?”

Imbis na mainis ako, ang sagut ko lamang sa taong iyon ay, “Yan lang ang sasakyan na meron kami at HINDI ko ikinakahiya kong anong sasakyan ang susundo sa akin dito sa paaralan dahil maswerte akong anak na may amang nag-aalala sa akin sa tuwing gabihin ako sa pag-uwi at nagtatyagang ihatid at sundoin ako kahit na minsan sya’y pagod galing sa trabaho”.

Despite all the hardships, Mailyn was able to graduate – and she dedicates her success to her ‘kargador’ dad! It was a sweet graduation photoshoot for Mailyn and her parents as she proudly makes them join in the pictures.

Photo credit: Facebook / Mailyn Esquelito Akoy

Congratulations!

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Waiter Builds Dream House, Years After Being Laughed at for Being “Just a Waiter”

A waiter builds his dream house, years after being laughed at for being “just a waiter”. There are still people who tell him to find another job, but they have no idea what he was able to achieve even if he is “just a waiter”!

Waiter Builds Dream House

Different jobs and different positions have different salaries, depending on a lot of factors. But there are jobs that do pay so much more than the others and those that only receive low salaries.

Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook

Waiters, for example, don’t earn much basic salary compared with other people. However, that does not mean that a waiter will always be poor in the eyes of many. It is through hard work, effort, and learning how to manage their finances that waiters have the chance to have a better life and even build their dream house.

Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook

In a post on Facebook, Jhay Suarez Tuyor shares the heartache he experienced as people looked down on him for being “just a waiter”. As he narrates the experiences he had as waiter and the wisdom he learned from this all, he earned everyone’s admiration on the internet.

Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook

Working as waiter since 2012, he shared that being a waiter is a challenging job as he could barely rest or eat properly throughout the 8-hour shift because the focus is always on the customers, even during your break time. He learned to deal with difficult, snotty customers whose clothes are more expensive than their 1-month salary.

Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook
Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook
Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook

He apologized for being “just a waiter” but shared photos of his dream house that he was able to build with his hard work as waiter. Every single cent her earned as waiter went to his dream house – and that earned him admiration from everyone.

Kudos, waiter Jhay!

Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook
Photo credit: Jhay Suarez Tuyor / Facebook

How Waiters Earn More

Waiters have jobs in the service industry. Though they might not have a big salary, many earn more through tips given by happy customers. There are even some customers who are lucky enough to get very big tips from extra generous customers.

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Adorable Dog Goes Viral for School Uniform to Join Friend’s Online Class

An adorable dog goes viral for wearing a lovely school uniform to join her friend’s online class. The dog even pretends to study the learning materials around her! What a cutie!

Dog Wears School Uniform

A lot of people treat dogs more like their children or friend rather than just pets or guards around the house. Though there are people, of course, who think that dogs are simply animals to help them out, there are more who think that dogs deserve the best and are actually part of their family.

Photo credit: Lizeth Orbigoso Saludar / Facebook

At the house Lizeth Orbigoso Saludar and her family in Antipolo City, Rizal, there’s a dog named Camila. They have to put her on a leash when she’s outside the house so she won’t roam around the neighborhood and get lost. But inside the house, they let her run free.

Photo credit: Lizeth Orbigoso Saludar / Facebook

The family would sometimes dress her up in various clothes and costumes. Recently, they got her a school uniform – and it really was perfect to use as costume for Camila’s back-to-school post! LOL.

Photo credit: Lizeth Orbigoso Saludar / Facebook

Because blended learning has started, the students in the house have to study their printed learning modules from school and attend their online classes. Since Camila had a school uniform, Lizeth thought that it would be cute to take some photos of their dog as she ‘studies’ with the lessons that they got from school.

Looking like she really is studying, Camila made a lot of netizens smile.

Photo credit: Lizeth Orbigoso Saludar / Facebook

Timing po kase na nakadamit sya ng pang school saka start na rin po ng blended learning. Para kunware mag aaral din po siya… Pampa good vibes lang,” the young student explained.

Lizeth also explained that her sister had sewn the school uniform for Camila. It is cute, isn’t it?

Photo credit: Lizeth Orbigoso Saludar / Facebook

Clothes for Dogs

These days, pet lovers can buy clothes for dogs. Of course, most dogs wouldn’t even need one because their fur will keep them warm but their owners think it is cute to let them wear clothes similar to those used by people.

There are also costumes for dogs, including ones for Halloween, Christmas, weddings, and doing cosplay.

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Flight Attendant Loses Job Amid COVID Crisis, Sells LPG Tanks to Earn Money

A flight attendant who lost her job amid the COVID-19 crisis now sells LPG tanks to earn money. Though she went through tough times when she got laid off at work, she eventually learned to accept her fate and is now encouraging others not to give up!

Flight Attendant Becomes LPG Seller

Maurice Maureen Avila used to work as Lead Cabin Crew for Cebu Pacific Air. She was proud and happy with her job, enjoying her ‘wings’.

Photo credit: Maurice Maureen Avila / Facebook

At the start of the COVID-19 crisis, Cebu Pacific Air and other airlines were among the ones to suffer the most due to the lack of trips. While there were modifications to their protocols to stop the spread of the virus, most trips were still canceled.

With no revenue and too many workers to pay, many airlines and various businesses had to close down. While there were those that remained in business, they had to retrench a lot of workers. Avila was among those who lost their job. It broke her heart so much and made her feel that she failed in life.

Photo credit: Maurice Maureen Avila / Facebook

I am exactly one and half month unemployed. YES. I AM ALREADY UNEMPLOYED. I AM NOT A FLIGHT ATTENDANT ANYMORE. AND I DON’T HAVE THE WINGS ANYMORE…” Avila wrote.

It took me so long to accept and post this in social media. Madaming nagtatanong sakin pero hindi ko nirereplyan. Kase nahihiya ako. Kase feeling ko nagfail ako sa buhay.

Photo credit: Maurice Maureen Avila / Facebook

She shares a photo taken back in her days as flight attendant and her current photo of what she does for a living. Instead of a trolley luggage to bring to the plane, she pulls a trolley of an LPG tank. It’s the first business that she and boyfriend Carl Anthony Beniga thought of doing to earn some money amid the crisis.

HINDI DAPAT IKAHIYA NA NATANGGAL KA SA TRABAHO. To others na nawalan din ng trabaho during this Pandemic, don’t lose hope. Narealize ko sa one and half month, na kahit anong gsto natin sa buhay kung hindi naman talaga yun ang plano ni Lord, kukunin at kukunin nya yun sayo,” she shared after making this realization.

Photo credit: Maurice Maureen Avila / Facebook

She continues to hope that she’ll find a job as flight attendant again but while waiting, she’s now content as she grows this business with her boyfriend.

Selling LPG

These days, most homes use an LPG tank for cooking. This makes selling LPG a good business. You can sell LPG in your neighborhood, but make sure to obtain the proper permits and provide proper storage of the tanks for safety.

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